

Eddie is typically a good eater. He likes to self feed. He especially likes to grab the spoon and wave it around, flinging food everywhere and then maybe stick the spoon in his mouth. Sometimes he will stick the spoon straight in his mouth, as a sort of trick. When I let go, then he flings the food, the spoon, and everything to the floor. He is also fond of taking a hold of the spoon, and trying to dip it into whatever I'm feeding him. If I let him, he'll do this over and over, each time, spreading more food around. I can't decide if he is really trying to get something on the spoon, or just playing.
I want to encourage him to learn how to feed himself. It's a fine line between how much mess I am willing to take that day and how much I want to encourage his development in this area. What I would really like to encourage is for him to completely self feed. (Dennis, as you may recall taught him to hold a bottle himself around 5 months--I had no idea how liberating that was until I learned that other kids his age were not holding their bottles).
So, I've gotten a variety of spoons (and a fork) pictured here. For those with no interest in infant implements, you can skip ahead two paragraphs. On the package, each yells "pick me, pick me" for a different reason. I fell for them, described from left to right. The first one is a "dipper" with the idea that your child can dip into something and not worry about the difficulty in getting the food onto a spoon, because it is somehow supposed to be easier to get on the Dipper, an infant spork (fork/spoon in one). But in my mind, unless there is a magnet that sucks the food onto the spork, thus far, this has been a waste of money, it's actually easier for him to get food onto a regualr spoon. The next one, with the holes in it "guarentees" that the food will stay on the spoon better. While this does so far seem accurate, what they don't tell you (and I wasn't thinking clearly enough to realize) is that the spoon is too big to fit in the baby's mouth. It's the size of an adult spoon!
The next set, the fork and spoon set is cute, but again, the spoon is a little big for him, and I do like the tines of the fork, but he's got a little while before he will be able to self feed with a fork. The yellow polka dotted one, has a wavy-curved handle for ease of grip. Don't really use it much, but it's fun to look at. Next we have the workhorses of our kitchen. The "take and toss" spoons we've been using from the beginning. These things are great. They fit into our travel case we bought to hold the spoons and we don't care if they get lost. The last spoon pictured has a nice rubber coating and a comfortable arm. Eddie loves to gnaw on the "spoon" part. This comes in handy when trying to feed him medicine. Oh and the spoon part is temperature sensitive, so it turns white if it gets too hot--or in this case, is run through the dishwasher numerous times.
So there you have it. In case you are in the market for baby spoons. It's not comprehensive, but a representative sample of our inventory. The picture of Eddie cracks me up. "what you talkin' 'bout?"
Thanks by the way for all your encouragement on the sick front in terms of my compentence as a mother. He's feeling much better and we learn a bit more with each experience.
4 comments:
I suggest you turn this discussion of baby spoons into an article for a baby magazine.
You might want to try some hand over hand assistance to establish that you dip the spoon in the food put it in your mouth, leave food in mouth, take out spoon to start the cycle over again. You should also do some talking to him as you help him, (hand over hand) or let him totally do it on his own. As this is a new skill that uses both fine (small movements and muscles) and gross (larger movements and muscels) it may take a little longer to develop. If you guide his eating some and let him practice some all in the same feeding it will give him immediate feedback on his eating skills and maybee be a little less messy. The best spoon would seem to be one with a small spoon part and a medium/large grip for the hand. Glad to hear he is feeling better. Remember everything is a balancing act, and requires alot of trial and error.
i love the silverware pic. I, as you may not be aware, am an infant feeding implement fanatic. not kidding. not so much from a feeding perspective, but from a design perspective. very fun. have a good week! (and oh yeah, definitely you could swing a parenting article out of this!) start w/your local dc kids parenting magazine freebie.
I maintain that implement number one is a baby oyster-shucker. You know, it's good to teach 'em that early -- "Hey baby, bring your mama another dozen on the half shell."
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